The Black Feminine Dilemma: The Struggle for Love and Success

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The game has changed. It used to be that when grandma called you into the kitchen to talk about women’s things, it was to make sure you knew how to cook the family’s best “way-to-a-man’s-heart” recipes. Now when grandma calls, it’s to say this:

“Get a good education, get out of this town, get a good job, and once you get yourself settled you can buy or borrow…